rhamerstein

Basics

  • Location:
    YUKON , OKLAHOMA , UNITED STATES
  • I am looking for:
    Woman
  • Zip Code:
    73099
  • Age:
    51
  • Height:
    5 ft. 7 in.
  • Body:
    Athletic
  • Ethnicity:
    White
  • Education:
    Some College
  • Job:
    Information Technology
  • Has Kids:
    Yes, living with me

ABOUT

To start off with, the following statement is based on most of the profiles I have read and feel need answered up front: I am NOT looking for a one-night stand. I do NOT want to send or receive dirty pics. I am NOT interested in YOUR money and mine is not your business as well. If we go out, I expect to pay and that is all you should know about my finances at this point. I drive. I work. I do NOT do drugs. I don't smoke weed, but am not bothered by it if YOU do. I like to drink occasionally, but in moderation ONLY. I have a clean record. I basically do not make decisions that will land me in jail or get me a record.

"Casual dating" or "Want to date but nothing serious" can turn into "WANT A RELATIONSHIP" with the right person. But, after 21 years of 2 manipulative women, I am not looking to immediately dedicate my life to anyone. I am easy going, very humorous, and a hard worker. And YES, I DO read your profiles. Lol!

Currently, I am a writer, but spent the last 23 years as a general manager in the restaurant business. I consider myself to be pretty well-rounded. I love intelligent conversation. I am bilingual(self taught and fluent) I love working in my garage in my spare time and I love to write. After so many years in the restaurant business, I have turned out to be quite a cook.

I adore intelligence in a woman, but watch closely those who consider themselves "intellectuals". True intelligence is about not falling for typical social arguments, but instead relying on one's own ability to seek out and evaluate empirical evidence and then making decisions accordingly. Many(but not all) "intellectuals" rely on a collectivist thinking model that requires them to propose nothing and accept blindly what other "intellectuals" say.

I am a single father of two boys and do NOT share any information regarding them.

I am not here to judge and ask the same from you. I am seeking a woman who would like to spend time with me without trying to change me or demand a relationship "status" in any way. No, I do not want to be a player, but rather want companionship without changing my entire life. Asking or demanding commitment early is both unfair and shows desperation. Like many on this site, I am a culmination of my experiences and act as such.

The most important thing for me to consider in any woman is PEACE. I work hard and I just want calmness in my life, which is NOT to say that I don't want excitement, I just don't want drama. I am totally a nice person and very easy going.

NOT all, but many women on this site engage in the very act that they accuse men of. They are essentially shopping a "meat market", some without even knowing it. The difference is that men are outward with it and women try to hide behind their anti-s*x statements as if they aren't shopping for the best piece of meat. They may not want s*x, but they DO want a nice piece of meat. The first thing they look at is money, and then physical features. Funny how they try to say they want a man"acts like a man" but who "speaks his feelings", "shows understanding", "wants to cuddle", and "be best friends". These statements alone speak volumes. They show lack in understanding men in general.

BUT I am a guy and I am NOT ashamed of it. I would be lying if I said that I don't want s*x. Any woman who doesn't think that at least 99% of the men on this site, want s*x is fooling herself. That being said, No! I do NOT expect to sleep with anyone right away nor am I going to just try to get into your pants.

What I am looking for

Casual dating with one person. Possibly more, as the times passes one never knows what may happen. I am not a player, but certainly not trying to move in or marry anyone